Why Relationships Feel Harder After the Holidays
Published on: 19/12/2025
The new year doesn’t fix relationships, it exposes them. Learn why couples struggle in January and how stress and communication patterns affect connection.
Dr. Etel Leit
Why You Give Too Much Too Fast in Love
Published on: 10/12/2025
Women overgive in relationships and lose themselves in love. This blog explains why emotional overinvestment, people pleasing, and attachment wounds drain your light and how choosing emotionally mature partners helps you create secure love, healthy communication, and real connection.
Dr. Etel Leit
Why You Fall For The Wrong People — And How To Stop
Published on: 03/11/2025
You know it’s wrong for you. You know it doesn’t feel good. So why do you still miss them? Why do you still crave the person who couldn’t give you what you need? It’s not a mystery—it’s your nervous system. Let’s stop calling it a type and start calling it what it is: a pattern. If you keep falling for emotionally unavailable partners, it’s likely because your body thinks anxiety equals love. You may not want chaos, but your nervous system recognizes it as familiar. That’s the lie of the trauma bond. It tricks your brain into thinking inconsistency is intimacy and confusion is chemistry. This cycle isn’t about weakness. It’s about repetition. The same emotional blueprint playing out over and over again, hoping the story ends differently. Until you consciously rewrite your internal Love Narrative™, nothing changes. You don’t attract what you want—you attract what feels known.
Dr. Etel Leit
Love Bombing on Love Island: What You’re Not Seeing
Published on: 29/10/2025
Love Island is full of fast romances and steamy connections. But this season, Jeremiah’s intensity has fans wondering: Is this love—or something more manipulative? His big declarations and quick emotional attachment are raising red flags across Twitter, and many are calling him a “love-bombing Huda”—a term used in a USA Today column to describe someone who rushes into deep connection without emotional maturity. And here’s the thing: they might be onto something. Because what looks like passion at first glance could actually be emotional manipulation.
Dr. Etel Leit