Healthy Relationship

Are You in Love With Them, or With Who They Could Be?

Dr. Etel Leit

Published on: 23/10/2026

Relationship potential, idealization, and the dangerous little habit of waiting for someone to become who you need them to be.

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The Lie We Tell Ourselves Every January

Dr. Etel Leit

Published on: 26/01/2026

Every January we promise change, but relationships, love, money, and life don’t shift with resolutions. A raw look at desire, fear, and the first step that actually creates change.

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